Be Who You Are

When You are Tired of the Struggle

by Mindy Kaleta January 4, 2016

When You are Tired of the Struggle… I don’t know about you, but although 2015 was filled with amazing breakthroughs, dreams realized and decisions made that I had been procrastinating on…I was still learning how to stop the struggle and relax. There were a few curve balls thrown at our family in 2015 that we […]

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Facebook Quizzes: Our Quest to Know Who..TH We Are!

by Mindy Kaleta July 22, 2015

You’ve seen them…those quizzes that come across your feed promising to let you know… What state you should be living in What color represents your personality What character you are in a movie What career is best for you They are super popular right now on Facebook and I admit I love taking the quiz! […]

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It’s LIVE!!!

by Mindy Kaleta July 1, 2015

Oh, my goodness! I’m so excited I can hardly stand it! The long-awaited launch date for Stop Bending Over Backwards Trying to Please has arrived!! I woke up this morning, grabbed my iphone and pulled up Amazon! Typed in my title and there she was!  My beautiful baby in all her innocence and quirky stance […]

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Are You Sacrificing Yourself for Others?

by Mindy Kaleta June 25, 2015

Yesterday morning I saw a beautiful post that went something like this: I have a good heart I help, trust, give and love too much And it always seems I hurt the most.   That was the jest of it, and while it was beautifully portrayed in an image and I believe that in and […]

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Do I Need to Walk Away From Loved Ones to Be Happy?

by Mindy Kaleta May 27, 2015

Do I Need to Walk Away From Loved Ones to Be Happy? Recently I have heard from a few people who are struggling with situations or issues with someone they are close to and love very much. These situations are causing them incredible grief, sadness and frustration. A common thread throughout these types of situations […]

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3 Relationship Mistakes Even Smart People Make

by Mindy Kaleta April 27, 2015

  Smart people make mistakes?  Yes, they do! And nobody is more certain about that than those of us who are still struggling with “being the nice girl” or “people pleasing”! But ya know what? We don’t have to struggle and actually, I’ve got good news for you! Making mistakes only make us stronger.  When […]

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Smartphones, Messaging, Texts and We Still Can’t Communicate!

by Mindy Kaleta October 6, 2014

Even with all the high-tech, on-the-go communication venues at our fingertips…communication is still one of most challenging issues of our day!  C’mon! We can do better than this! As you may be able to tell, the lack of communication I believe is the #1 reason people have trouble with relationships.  We are poor communicators!  Think […]

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Foundation Blocks For a Healthy Relationship

by Mindy Kaleta October 2, 2014

    Ever wonder what a Healthy Relationship looks like?  Yeah, me too! Sometimes when you are knee deep in the throes of some crazy situations with partners, friends, family or work associates…you may wonder if there ARE any healthy relationships out there! But, there are of course; you just may need a refresher on […]

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Honoring Your Personal Instincts For Success

by Mindy Kaleta September 27, 2014

Have you ever started on a project and halfway into it you lost interest?  Or you were convinced that because you were talented in a certain area that you would be a perfect fit for developing a business around it? Or maybe you signed up to volunteer to help someone out only to find that […]

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Finding Your Why To Give Life To Your Dream

by Mindy Kaleta September 23, 2014

Finding Your Why   Alright, in my last blog post Are You Settling for Less Than You Deserve?) we were talking about taking a pen and paper out and writing down those things, deep within your brain that you dreamed of as a child, teen and early adult; dusting it off and giving it another […]

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